The Flip Side of Our Character

Zinaida Serebriakova--Self Portrait--1909If you think about it, every trait, even the good ones, can be taken too far or have a flipside to it.

What if our good traits start to work against us and create conflict for us or add tension to a situation?

I’m really Type A about some things. I have to be on time. It’s almost an obsession for me…and I’ll do just about anything to be on time.

That definitely has a bad side. If I get any hint that a situation will make me late…a traffic jam, a last-minute emergency that crops up…I’m stressed out. Stress isn’t good for me and isn’t good for people around me, either. :) I’m not nearly as fun to be around when I’m stressed out—and that’s a lousy way to start out a lunch date or a night at the movies, or a school event, or whatever I’m on my way to.

An organized person who plans their day may have low tolerance for a sudden change in plans.

Sometimes people who are too nice don’t have much of a backbone.

Someone can be industrious but could cross the line into being a workaholic.

Charismatic people can be egotistical.

Intelligent people sometimes need constant stimulation or else they get bored.

And on it goes. :) Have you thought of the flipside of your characters’ positive traits and how they might trip them up?

Elizabeth Spann Craig

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Elizabeth writes the Memphis Barbeque series (as Riley Adams) and the Southern Quilting mysteries for Penguin and writes the Myrtle Clover series for Midnight Ink and independently. She also has a blog, which was named by Writer’s Digest as one of the 101 Best Websites for Writers. There she posts on the writing craft, finding inspiration in everyday life, and fitting writing into a busy schedule.

18 Comments

  1. Teresa aka JWNovember 16, 2010

    Me too type A and yet I’m a free spirit inside trying to get out from under the Type A person.

    Thanks for the tips on looking at the flip side.

  2. Margot KinbergNovember 16, 2010

    Elizabeth – That kind of thinking is exactly why your characters have some authenticity and depth to them. Every trait has negative and positive aspects to it, doesn’t it? And thinking about flip sides prevents major characters from being too perfect (something that always annoys me about characters) or too evil (again, annoying). Thanks as always for the food for thought.

  3. Kiran RaivaderraNovember 16, 2010

    Good observations. And so true

  4. Terry OdellNovember 16, 2010

    Too much of a good thing can definitely create problems. Although I like throwing my characters into situations they aren’t trained for, looking at the flip side also opens new possibilities. Thanks for the good post.

    Terry
    Terry’s Place
    Romance with a Twist–of Mystery

  5. The Old SillyNovember 16, 2010

    Love this post. Flip-sides add so much dimension and realism to characters.

  6. Carol KilgoreNovember 16, 2010

    Such a good post. That is just exactly what’s happening to my protagonist. She’s so determined and focused that she almost misses the one thing she’s really searching for.

  7. Elspeth AntonelliNovember 16, 2010

    I try to remember this every time I create a new character. There’s always the flip side of any characteristic. I don’t think I’m a Type A personality; but I do hate being late…hate it hate it hate it.

  8. Alex J. CavanaughNovember 16, 2010

    Yes! A perfectionist can drive others crazy. And I know this from personal experience…

  9. Linda LeszczukNovember 16, 2010

    I’ve got a cop in my WIP who’s a really good cop but so focused on the way things should be done it makes him inflexible in off beat situations.

  10. Clarissa DraperNovember 16, 2010

    I think that’s a perfect way to think about it. I have many of the perfections/imperfections as you and a good writer will write both sides of those coins into their book.

    CD

  11. Stacy PostNovember 16, 2010

    Flippin’ good post, Elizabeth! I was having my doubts about realistic conflict with one of my characters and you just gave me a new direction to go. Thanks!

    And thanks for stopping by the blog! Always a pleasure!

  12. N. R. WilliamsNovember 16, 2010

    Absolutely. My heroine is a type ‘A’. She is 110% dedicated to her music. This means she is also stubborn and I use this trait in many a conflict scene.
    Nancy
    N. R. Williams, fantasy author

  13. HeatherNovember 16, 2010

    This is an excellent point I didn’t really think about when it comes to characters. Thank you!

  14. TK RichardsonNovember 16, 2010

    You always have such great information. This is definitely something to make a note of. :)

  15. Elizabeth Spann Craig/Riley AdamsNovember 16, 2010

    Kiran–Thanks! :)

    The Old Silly–Thanks for coming by, Marvin!

    Teresa–Good luck letting that free spirit out!

    Alex–I live with one of those, myself! :)

    Margot–I like your idea of applying the flip side to a bad guy, too–because no one can be bad ALL the time!

    Linda–Inflexibility is a great one to work with! Lots of potential for conflict with that.

    Clarissa–It’s kind of fun to think that someone’s good traits can work against them, too. :)

    Nancy–I think stubborness works really well to produce conflict.

    Terry–Thanks! And thanks for dropping by.

    Carol–Can’t see the forest for the trees? I’m like that, frequently, myself!

    Heather–Thanks so much for coming by!

    TK–Thanks so much! Hope it helps. :)

    Elspeth–Me too!! Hate it. Oh…and someone acting like I’ve dropped the ball on something when I haven’t. Oh Lordy. It just makes me flip out…

  16. Mary AalgaardNovember 16, 2010

    It’s that double-edged sword we speak of. On the one hand, something is good, on the other, it can be taken to extremes. Yes. The so-called good characteristics become the flaw.

  17. The Golden EagleNovember 16, 2010

    Interesting post! I never really thought about a good point being a drawback for a character, not in that sense.

  18. Elizabeth Spann Craig/Riley AdamsNovember 17, 2010

    Mary–And I love flaws. :) With mysteries, it’s especially fun because not everyone is who they seem to be.

    The Golden Eagle–Isn’t it funny how even the good traits can trip us up sometimes?

    Stacy–I’m glad you’ve got some more ideas for conflict! Oh, we do love to torture our characters… :)

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